OK, so you’ve heard of it, maybe even thought about it, or considering it… but do you really know what exactly a Boudoir Session is and curious of what it may unlock for you?

So let’s talk about it. Forget everything else for a moment, you’re here for a reason, your curiosity is peaked and you want to know what booking a session would mean for you. The truth is, the answer is a little different for every woman that steps inside my studio. It really depends on why you’re considering booking and what your reason is for holding back. Here are 11 reasons why you absolutely should say YES to boudoir.

**1. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, BABE**

You’re in love, and it’s totally amazing… well, most of the time. When they aren’t getting on your last nerve, this person makes you feel complete. Time flies with them and, before you know it, a year has passed with them by your side. Or maybe it’s been a couple… doesn’t matter. This year, you’re going to do something a little different. That’s right. You’re going to give them the anniversary present of their DREAMS! The best part is, they won’t even see it coming. That is, if you can keep it all under wraps and a secret (I totally could not, I suck at keeping surprises).
Show that special someone how they make you feel… and remind them why they chose you, and keep choosing you.

**2. BOUDOIR SHOOTS = FEMALE EMPOWERMENT**

You won’t admit it, but we all know the truth. You’re a total **LADY BOSS.** Doesn’t matter who you are, where you are, or what you do. You are an **amazing woman**, and it’s time to own it.
There shouldn’t be a day you don’t feel exceptionally powerful in your own body. As women we sometimes forget how important embracing our confident and sensual side is, and a boudoir session is a perfect reminder.

**3. REMEMBRANCE FOR MILITARY DEPLOYMENT**

Girl I totally get it. Being miles away from your loved one can be one of the hardest experiences for anyone to go through. When you can’t see your significant other and share intimate moments with them, it makes it tough to keep things passionate… but that just means you may have to get creative when it comes to keeping you on their mind. Whether you’re back at home, or they are, let them have one of their favorite parts of you with them.
We offer tangible and digital products that are perfect reminders to keep them focused on their end game of where home is.
What’s keeping you from booking your boudoir session and sending them a nice surprise?

**4. HE PUT A RING ON IT!**

Thinking about the perfect way to celebrate your engagement? Well, why not spoil the lucky someone with some gorgeous pics of you in sexy lingerie while wearing their pretty little ring? It’s definitely a cute reminder that the bride-to-be is a total babe, and an excellent way to commemorate this incredible milestone in your life. You could even keep it under wraps and gift it to him the day before or of the big day as his wedding gift.
Think about it, when’s the next time you’ll have the chance for some cute bridal boudoir?

**5. REACHING A MILESTONE**

So it hasn’t really been your year… or maybe it has and you’re looking for a way to celebrate your gorgeous self. Whether it’s loosing a few pounds, getting that degree, or finally reaching that goal. A lot can happen in the course of a few months, and just making it through the year is reason enough to celebrate sometimes. Having a boudoir shoot can make reaching that milestone all the sweeter and should be a reminder of just how gorgeous you manage to stay every year.
So book it and embrace this year, for better or for worse.

**6. IT’S YOUR BIRTHDAY… OR MAYBE IT’S BAE’S**

Whether you are turning the big 3-0, 40, or 50 and fabulous, this birthday is a big one, and you want to celebrate it a little different this year. You know this year has been one of your most fabulous yet, so flaunt it, girl! Take those bold beautiful pictures you’ve been owing yourself from 7 birthdays ago. Age is just a number and there is no age limit with boudoir. Don’t let your number stop you from seeing your best self yet.
Even better, it’s someone else’s birthday, and you need to find a one-of-a-kind gift. How about with some jaw dropping pictures showing off their real present? You’re yummier than Birthday Cake girl! So let’s celebrate it whether it’s your birthday, or theirs.

**7. YOU NEED A REMINDER…**

You thought you peaked in your 20’s? Well, it’s time to discover your new “peak”. I know that seeing is believing and, at the end of your session, you’ll walk away with gorgeous pictures that will remind you that you don’t have to “get your sexy back”, because girl, you never lost it. A boudoir session is a perfect opportunity for you to let yourself explore and rediscover your gorgeous body in a new and daring way.
Oh to reminisce on the days where you were young, wild and carefree. You may have taken a back burner on yourself while you are busy making a living and raising babies, but your fire still sparks from within. Don’t go another day not realizing your utter perfection, because lady, you are **FLAWLESS.**
A little nervous? Not sure what to expect? Well don’t worry, I’ve got you covered! I consult with each of my #LimeLightBeauties over the phone and I go over everything you need to know. From hair, to make up, to outfits… all your questions and curiosities answered!

**8.VALENTINES DAY**

You know it’s coming, but you didn’t realize how soon. Then, out of nowhere, there they are. Aisles stuffed with cheesy V-Day cards, giant plush animals, and heart shaped boxes. It’s GO time. You have to start stressing out over what you’re going to get that special someone…just make sure you skip the overpriced flowers and chocolate buying, you’re going for the GOLD. Something they wouldn’t see coming. This year, you’re spoiling them with something sweeter than assorted chocolate and candy. YOU.
Single? So what? SPOIL YOURSELF! No matter what your status is on Valentines Day, its LOVE day and **you need to 100% love yourself.**
Just think of a boudoir session as the cherry on top of your “I Love Myself” sundae. Who knows? Maybe your new photos will help find that special someone for next Valentine’s and that status changes to “Taken”.

spice girl — **9. TIME TO SPICE THINGS UP**

Long-term relationships are wonderful and you get to do life with “your person”. However they take work to stay out of the mundane because loving the same person can get comfortable and sometimes routine. You find yourself falling into a rhythm, and while things aren’t necessarily bad, they could be better. A boudoir shoot is a great way to bring sexy back into the relationship and shake things out of that normal routine.
I know the drill, I hear it all the time. “I never wear lingerie”, or “I wear comfy t-shirts to bed”. This is the normal that i’m talking about.
Being **bold** is boring’s worst enemy, so make your move… and let’s make it a good one.

**10. YOU HAD A BABY**

Our babies are the cutest little creatures we ever created, but let’s be honest, they put our bodies through HELL. That’s why after they’re out, you need to make sure you treat yourself to a little TLC. Your body is different now. But different doesn’t mean it’s not still beautiful.
“But I have stretch marks…”
“But I have a c-section scar…”
“But I just can’t seem to shake this baby weight…”
I’m going to toss those but’s and give you fellow mama’s a little kick in the butt!
Embrace your new mommy battle scars and changes, because you created life… and that’s pretty damn incredible.

**11. HEARTBREAK**

Oh yea, the 11th reason is the not-so-fun one. Breakups, divorce, separation, and the way too common cheated and affair scenarios. We’ve all been there. But this isn’t a pity party. We all know who the real losers are in these situations… remember, everything happens for a reason. So whether you’re embracing your new found liberation, or need a little reminder that you’re a total catch and deserve so much MORE, a boudoir session is just what that doctor ordered for that tattered soul of yours.
Time to dust yourself off, pick up the pieces and start this journey of healing.

There are a TON of other reasons why you should have boudoir session, these are just 11 of them. Whatever your reason, let it be excuse-proof because you deserve to work your gorgeous angles just like the rest of us!

From one lady to another, I know it’s intimidating to embrace your femininity. Sometimes we wrap ourselves in this shell of negativity, and it’s almost impossible for us to come out of it. If you walk away with anything after reading this, I hope it’s a reassurance that you are beautiful. Regardless of the reason why you’ve told yourself no in the past, you are more than gorgeous enough to have your own glamorous boudoir session.

I’ve been a boudoir photographer for years, and I can honestly say, the beauty and confidence boudoir shoots bring out is incredible.

I hope to see you in front of my camera soon pretty lady! If you can think of any other reasons to book your boudoir session, make sure to comment below. I’d love to hear them all!